As children reach their teenage the enrichment of their brain
mostly depends on them. You can only advice
and guide them, but in the end they are responsible for how they form their own
character.
Teenage years are crucial years for brain development and are subject
to a range of genetic and environmental factors. Children are more susceptible
to risky behaviors with some of the negative behaviors having lifelong
consequences. For instance, adolescent drinkers develop deep genetic changes related
to the stress hormones. They are unable to get used to stressors and have a
more exaggerated response to stress.
- The secret of
parenting teens effectively is to always be there for your child, listen
with curiosity instead of talking at them, or lecturing them. Also, show
them you have faith in their decisions. Available parents will be seen by
a teen as advisors instead to opposition and adversaries.
- It is also believed
that fathers are in a position to instill hope and persistence in their
children, especially in pre-teens and teens. Fathers who provide feelings
of granting autonomy, love, and emphasizing accountability are more likely
to have children that develop the art of perseverance, which helps them do
better in homeschool. While this
does not mean mothers can’t instill these values, fathers take this role
more often due to societal expectations and acceptance. Fathers who rare
their children in an authoritarian style have less persistent children.
- Never allow your teenagers
to spend too much time on new technology and computers that shape their
brain to have shorter attention span, difficulty concentrating in the class,
and having a hard time sitting still for too long to plan ahead or
complete homework.
- Advice the teen to
work hard to stay ahead in the future. The harder the child works the
better grades he or she will get.
- Do not worry about
little bickering or fighting with the teenager. Small conflicts during the
adolescence years is very normal and is way for the parent and child to
adjust with one another.
- Peer pressure may not be such a bad thing for teens. It can push them to perform well in sports, be hygienic, and the like. Children who feel pressured in their early teenage are likely to have better quality relationships with their parents and partners. They learn to be in concurrence to delicate changes in the moods of other people. This sensitivity makes them more socially skillful and emphatic when they become older. However, it is also important to teach the child to be selective about the friends they make.
The teenage years are tough on children as they go through
several hormonal changes, with just a little help you can help raise smarter
children.
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